Make A Wish, Sophea!

Make A Wish, Sophea!

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First night at the Give Kids the World Village.

To say that this year has been crazier than most for our family of 6, is an understatement. I think we went 4 and a half months with a doctor’s appointment every week, on top of the girl’s individual weekly therapy appointments. Many weeks we had 2 additional doctor’s appointments per week. At least one week a month, we had a doctor’s appointment every. single. day. And several times, we had more than one appointment a day. Looking back, I have no idea what kept us going. It was exhausting, both mentally and physically, for the girls and for Mike and me. But with Sophea’s heath declining, we did what we needed to do.  IMG_2786

In the midst of the multitude of appointments, within the span of a day and a half, we learned that Sophea was in night-time respiratory failure, that spinal fusion surgery was in her near future, and we received her genetic results with her diagnosis of SEPN1 (a rare form of Congenital Muscular Dystrophy). As we were mulling over this information, I was beginning to see posts from a newly acquired facebook friend about *Make-A-Wish. This piqued my interest, and the timing of these posts couldn’t have been better!  I researched it further, and filled out an application to see if Sophea would qualify. She did! Within a couple weeks, we had a 2 beautiful Make-A-Wish volunteers at our house, giving Sophea the opportunity to make a wish! 

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Pool at GKTW, which was open until 10pm!

If you recall my previous post, Sophea was accepted for a Caribbean Cruise. As we were preparing, for the cruise and for her surgery, we came to the conclusion that we were unable to make the cruise happen before surgery. Sophea had the option to decide if she wanted to have the cruise to look forward to after surgery or if she wanted to choose another wish from her list. Sophea called one of our Make-A-Wish volunteer coordinators herself, and pleaded to choose another wish from her list because, ultimately, she wanted to go before her spinal fusion surgery. Originally, the coordinators were concerned that she may be “settling” for her second choice wish, but Sophea convinced them that waiting until after surgery would be settling. I greatly appreciated the MAW volunteers’ concerns; it only further proves how caring they are. Sophea was positive that she wanted to go before surgery, since we don’t have a clear idea of what the lengthy healing process will look like. In her mind, going on her wish trip beforehand was best since she is fully aware of what her current limitations and mobility will allow.   

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Sophea’s next choice on her list was Walt Disney World! I can’t say that this was ever a “second” choice. From the beginning it was pretty much a tie between Disney and a cruise. The only reason she initially decided on a cruise over Disney was because, as I mentioned, Sophea is aware of her limitations and she knew that the cruise would have more opportunity for relaxing, and sleeping in. (She wasn’t wrong!)

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Within a week and a half, of deciding to move forward with Disney, we learned we would be leaving in 9 days! Make-A-Wish really does work magic!

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Meeting Mickey Mouse at GKTW

On Sophea’s very first plane ride, the flight attendants made an announcement, drawing attention to Sophea as a Wish-Kid on her Wish trip, while presenting her with a crown made of airplane pretzel bags and heart-shaped picks. All the passengers clapped, and Sophea’s smile blossomed! After we landed, she met the pilot and was allowed to sit in the cockpit of the plane. Already, magic was happening and joy was created for my girl, before the trip even began!

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Sophea- sitting in the cockpit with the Captain, wearing her pretzel crown made by the flight attendants.

Upon arrival to the Orlando airport on St. Patrick’s Day, we were greeted with a *Give Kids The World volunteer holding a big sign that said, “Welcome Sophea”.  At that moment, we knew this was the PERFECT Make-A-Wish trip for Sophea!! It’s highly unlikely that she would have received this amount of special attention on the cruise. The last minute switch absolutely worked out in our favor; I’m convinced it turned out EXACTLY how it was supposed to. The GKTW volunteer took our luggage and led us through the airport to the rental car area. After we had our rental van, he gave us detailed directions to Give Kids the World Village and presented Sophea with a special GKTW bag, stuffed with goodies for her and her family.

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Animal Kingdom

Both Make-A-Wish and Give Kids The World go above and beyond to ensure that the Wish-Kid (and their family) is showered with love, special attention, and gifts. I will never be able to adequately describe how incredible this experience was for Sophea and for our family. Instead, I will share what I learned from this experience:

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  1. Volunteers are love in motion. There is no better way to describe them. They are invaluable. It is clear they are there, doing what they do, because they want to be; they always have a smile and a helping hand ready to share joy any way they can.

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    Christmas in the Village. Each week, GKTW celebrates the holidays (such as Halloween and Christmas).
  2. Give Kids the World Village is the perfect name, because that is exactly what they do. Between GKTW and Make-A-Wish, we couldn’t have imagined more. The kindness and attention we received were far more valuable, than we could have envisioned.

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    Sophea’s Dolphin Encounter which was an added SURPRISE from Make-A-Wish!!!
  3. In Give Kids the World Village, you are treated just as you should be. Like a person. A kid. A human. Never a disease. After having so many doctor’s appointments and meetings, you are used to being asked to describe your child. They don’t really mean, describe your “child.” They mean describe their disease. Describe all their limitations. Describe all the things that need “fixed.” How refreshing it was to be in a place where no one asks, “what is wrong?” unless, maybe, you look sad -which is pretty impossible to do in such an incredible place. As parents, we have gotten used to receiving the curious and sometimes judgmental glares (and from time to time, a few snide comments) of strangers when our child is using her scooter or convaid, and moments later, she climbs out of her device and walks to explore something she finds interesting. Most times, the double takes are from well meaning people. People that possibly even began a conversation with one of our girls while they were seated in their device. Perhaps, the stranger feels tricked in a sense, when they see one of them walking because they don’t fully comprehend their level of fatigue. Being at GKTW was restoring to the soul, to be in a place where we did NOT feel judged- not even for a moment the entire (almost) week we were there! We felt fully free to be us.

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    Ice cream?!  Any time of day?! Yes, PLEASE!  Even for Breakfast? Absolutely!!
  4. Even in the most magical place on Earth, as Disney is often referred to, there is not enough magic to halt sibling rivalry. About 3 days into our trip a friend texted and asked, “How’s Disney?” Minutes after standing between two grumpy, sleep deprived, blue-eyed children of mine, (I won’t exactly name names! 😉 ) as they were screeching at each other and taking jabs, in front of the onlookers (yep, the screeching certainly creates an audience quickly) because one of them tripped over the other (or something as equally ridiculous), I answered her, “Awesome!!!! All the kids are somewhere between having-the-best-day-of-their-lives and so tired/grumpy they-could-murder-if-you-look-at-them-funny.”  “I just hope they only have room for their best memories made here, “ I added. (And I think that’s where the magic comes in.)

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    Cracking up at Magic Kingdom! Do you see that smile on Sophea’s face!?  It is a rare site to see her smiling so big, especially, while standing so close to her younger brother!!
  5. Disney and Universal are very accessible and inclusive parks. For nearly every ride, we could take Sophea’s scooter (or transfer her to a wheelchair) and Adylaede’s convaid all the way up to the actual ride itself. They could transfer directly from their device to the ride. Many rides even had wheelchair accessible cars, so you could strap the wheelchair directly into the ride. (We did not use this, but I was very pleased to see the fully accessible rides!) Disney and Universal really are for all ages! The same rides Adylaede enjoyed, Malikhi did as well.

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    This is one of my top favorite photos of the entire trip!  They were actually all getting along for a whole 3 seconds to take the picture too!
  6. Getting around Disney with a large-ish family isn’t easy, unless you know where you are going. We did NOT! Thankfully, we had 2 amazing “tour guides,” familiar with Disney that helped keep us from wondering aimlessly. They showed us all the best/can’t miss attractions and shows. How they had patience with our family (between the sibling spats and stopping at nearly every gift shop or bathroom), I’ll never know, but thank you Pat and Darryl for leading the way! We appreciate it from the bottom of our hearts!

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    Epcot with Pat and Darryl
  7. Eventually, every magical trip comes to an end; saying goodbye to the Village on the last day was very sad for Sophea. And that made my heart happy, because it was then, that I knew just how much this trip meant to her- just how special it was. We will never be able to thank Make-A-Wish, Give Kids the World, and all the marvelous volunteers to the immensity they deserve! The memories we made will truly last a lifetime.

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    Last day at Give Kids the World.  Sophea said she doesn’t like this photo, because leaving was sad.
*According to Make-a-Wish® , any child between the ages of 2½ and 18 who has a “life-threatening medical condition” can qualify for a wish through the Make-A-Wish®  foundation. Does “life-threatening” mean “terminal?” No! Make-A-Wish® has sometimes been incorrectly portrayed as an organization that only grants wishes to children who are terminally ill. Our eligibility criteria stipulate that a child must be diagnosed with a life-threatening medical condition, not a terminal condition.
*Give Kids the World is a special resort in Kissimmee, Florida. It is separate foundation of Make-A-Wish, and equally incredible! In short, the founder of GKTW, Henri Landwirth, was one of the first hotel owners near Walt Disney World when it opened. Because of this, many wish-granting organizations would call his hotel and request a room for a child battling an illness- to which he would always reply, YES! One day, he noticed a wish-room reservation was canceled, because the child had passed away before the room was available.  (It took about 2 months for a room to become available.) He never wanted to hear about another child losing their battle before their Disney wish was granted, so he set out to find volunteers and donations and created Give Kids The World Resort. Now, if warranted, the waiting period could be less than 24 hours! (This is a very shortened version, and it is very much worth learning more about Henri Landwirth!!
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Sophea pretending to have Mickey ears.
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Everyone is pretty tired, but in this photo you can really tell Adylaede is tired!
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She did the sunblock herself, and she was so proud of it too!
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It rained a couple of days, but we still had fun! Thank you, Granny Sou, for the rain ponchos!
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Sophea holding her breath, “underwater” with Ariel.
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Storm Clouds overhead, but who can be upset with Tinkerbell in their hand?!
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See, we were trying to enjoy the snow with all our PA peeps.  🙂
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Goofy with Goofy.
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In France – at Epcot.

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Tea Cups!!

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Malikhi you are awesome! 😛 Sophea I love the joy you are showing in this photo!
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For most of our kids, this is their first flight!
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At Universal. These were the Mardi Gras parade performers, they made our family feel so special. One of them even laid on the ground to talk to Adylaede. Days later, when we returned to Universal, they even remembered our names!
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Adylaede caught so many necklaces (with the help of her big brother) at the Mardi Gras parade, she could barely stand wearing them all. And yet, she wouldn’t take them off!
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Our Performer!
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Singing into her drink bottle.
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First, Adylaede made me follow her down a slide that was clearly too small for me. Then she took my picture!
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Peering out of the window in the play area in the Castle of Miracles.
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Every Wish kid at GKTW gets a special star to decorate. Stellar, the star fairy, then hangs it in the Castle of Miracles, where it will stay for as long as that building stands. Currently, there are over 160,000 stars hanging all over that room. The wish families are allowed to come visit the stars when ever they would like.
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Adylaede hitchin’ a ride on her sisters scooter.
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Brother ruckus! Giddeon is afraid of clowns; Malikhi was showing him there was nothing to be afraid of from this creepy looking clown in the village.
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First dinner in the village – kids took the big booth and…
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made daddy (and me) sit at the tiny table! lol!
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Sophea getting ready for a 3D show at Sea World.
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The Carousel at GKTW.
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On our First day at Give Kids the World, we ran into the Village mayor! Meet Mayor Clayton and Ms. Merry!

Ok, readers! We have a little less than 2 weeks for Sophea’s surgery!! Does anyone have or know of where to find any of these items to borrow (or rent), while she heals?

-a recliner that lifts you out and reclines almost completely.

-a seat that attaches to the toilet, with handles.

-a step stool to help her get into the van.

-a shower chair (we have a free standing shower – our bathtubs are separate.) (My grandmother may already have this for her to borrow.)

-a removable shower head with decent pressure for rinsing her hair in the shower. (I know we can buy one fairly inexpensive. I’m just asking for recommendations here! Our shower doesn’t have great pressure and I only recently got a new shower head installed (Thank you, Martin!) that allows decent pressure – we have thick hair and pressure is essential for rinsing.)

 

6 thoughts on “Make A Wish, Sophea!

  1. What a marvelously written review of Sophea’s trip, Make A Wish and Give Kids The World! Thank you! MAW has changed their Misdion Statement from “life threatening” to “children with critical illnesses.” So many illnesses are cured or managed today that years ago were not! PTL.
    So very happy that Sophea’s Wish was Awesome! I had no doubt!

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    1. Thank you Cathy, for clarifying! This was the information that came up in my google search- so I am happy to have that clarification in the comments! P.s. I received your text last night when I was up too late editing my blog post! I’m rarely awake past 9:30pm, on school days. I would be happy if you would share any photos from either Mike or my FB page with Make-A-Wish. Feel free to share the blog post as well. We are just in awe.

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  2. Call UCP of Central PA..717-737-3477. They have a medical equipment lending dept. ask for Jackie. It is located in Camp Hill.

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  3. Hello!
    Mike and I were talking this morning about your needs.
    I do have a bedside commode chair, which can then be converted to assist at the toilet, plus shower chair, plus waterless hair washing caps you are welcome to use/try.
    Diane

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    1. Thank you so much! I will check with my grandmother to confirm weather or not she has a shower chair. We really appreciate this! (…and now I am going to google water-less hair washing caps, because I have never heard of these. 🙂 )

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